Yes! It's so hard to download from those sites. Most of those "download from tudou or youku" sites either don't work or force you to download some video downloader filled with malware.
Hi~There's a feasible way to solve your problems. You can try this Chinese software called big-rat(硕鼠 ),http://www.flvcd.com/. You can easily download videos from Tudou, Youku and many other Chinese sites.